06 Feb Fulham SUMMER PARTY SEPT 2004

Fever’s last summer party had visitors from Belgium and the Netherlands, two single women and 55 randy couples who kept the action going until 6.45am.

WHAT THE PARTYGOERS THOUGHT…

[Male partner] & I had a great time on Saturday night, I have to admit that I hadn’t felt nervous at all in the week running up to the actual night…however I was quite a bag of nerves about an hour before we arrived….this disappeared pretty much as soon as we were greeted at the door by [hostess] and with the first glass of champage that appeared in my hand! The venue was class & the environment & other guests made us feel totally relaxed. Since Saturday night, I have these amazing flashbacks from the party & experience, we would without a doubt be interested in coming again.
[First timers 28 & 24]

We’d just like to say a big thankyou for the invite to last Saturdays party. Had a fantastic time and met some lovely people. It surpassed all our expectations what with the venue, loads of good looking people, great service from the staff and the main bedroom…..bloody marvellous. Yes, we took some sexy memories from there!! Hope you’ll consider inviting us to one of your future parties.
[New couple 38 & 35]

Thanks once again for laying on a great party. We had a fantastic time and met some lovely people. As you might have noticed we spent many hot hours playing with [deleted] from Hastings! They are just the kind of people we love to meet…sensuous, erotic and un pushy. I think the image of [female partner] holding my cock and inviting [female partner of other couple] to suck it will be engraved on my mind for a long time to come! 😉 We’re really looking forward to get the chance to come again. We’ve just put an application in the post for next month and hope that it’s successful. Hopefully we might even get to see [deleted] again.
[Regulars 37 & 29]

Can we firstly say a huge thanks to you all for inviting us to your excellent party last night. This was our first Fever party and we were both quite literally blown away by the whole evening. We have been regular guests at other organised parties before, but now see that your parties are truly top of the league. The whole venue, ambience and your apartment were just beautiful and the many couples we met were just lovely……your selection process really sets the party apart.

Although we tend to get a little nervous and excited (no bad thing!) whenever we go to any party, we were both surprisingly more so coming last night. However once we walked through the door into the apartment, we both felt truly relaxed when we were welcomed. We would also like to thank the gorgeous tall blonde lady (sorry we were a little overwhelmed and didn’t quite get her name) who took us into the main lounge area and really made us feel at home. The champagne flowed throughout the evening and we talked to numerous couples. Suffice it to say….we got to know them far more intimately by the end of the evening.

We spent most of our time on the “big bed” and made many more new friends there as well. We had an absolutely fabulous evening, and came away from the party with a huge number of memories and some lovely new friends. We felt really privileged to be invited to one of your parties and would love to come again so please could you forward any information that we need to progress this further. Thanks once again for a superb evening. Hope to see you all again very soon ;o)
[New couple 36 & 29]

Just to say thank you for a great party – the atmosphere was just right and we were both really impressed. Needless to say, we v much enjoyed ourselves too! [female partner]

I just wanted to add that I thought it was fantastic. We had never done anything like that before but we both had an amazing time and would love to come to another event. The people were great, the atmosphere was amazing. [male partner]
[First time couple 32 & 31]

We both had a fantastic time. We can see ourselves becoming regulars! We can’t wait to find out when and where the next party is! The only criticism I can think of is that there just isn’t enough hours in one night! Thank you for a fabulous night and for organising such an amazing event, the place was gorgeous and the view both out the window and in the flat was fantastic!
[New couple 24 & 29]

We had an exciting evening which created a happy “afterglow” that has lasted all of today. All the way through our experience, we were impressed by your professionalism. The web site is excellent – has just about everything you would want or need to know – but leaves the explicit sex for the night itself. The marketing and pr does most FTSE 100 companies to shame.
[New couple 37 & 34]

We just logged in tonight to tell you that we had a great time. We felt very well looked after, and met lots of new friends. We don’t think you could have done anything better. It was really well organised. Can’t think of any criticism at all! We were so impressed by the venue, the guests and everything else. It lived up to your promises, which few things in life every really do. Hope to see you at another Fever Party soon!
[New couple 35 & 35]

Firstly, I’d like to thank you for inviting us to what was just an exceptional party! What an amasing combination of location, drinks, gorgeous people and an excellent ‘game’. Having never attended anything like it before, I was unsure what to expect, but everything was great. I was amazed by just how friendly everyone was…it was like a constant queue of couples coming up to us and introducing themselves. Almost felt like a wedding — how are you? Who do you know here? Where you from? etc etc. Probably just didn’t think about that prior to arriving (its low on the nervous level), but it really made everything very relaxed.

I must say, there is probably nothing I would have changed. The women were so attractive and very friendly, we both enjoyed the company of a few couples — and the big bed was an amasing experience. Something I intend to do many more times! Next time, I will make sure I have nothing going on the next day so I can stay to teh wee small hours of the morning…things were in full swing (no intended) when we had to leave, would like to see how it progressed. Looking forward to being involved again soon! Don’t change anything.
[First timers 31 & 21]

We just wanted to both say how much we enjoyed Saturday’s party. Thevenue was very, very impressive, the atmosphere from the minute we arrived was fantastic and we both instantly felt totally at ease….From the music through to the really friendly guys behind the bar and the girls on the door, it was all expertly arranged. We spent at least 3 hours playing in the large room: an incredible experience, in the middle of all those fabulous bodies. Hopefully, some of the many couples we played with enjoyed our company as much as we did theirs – they seemed to. We both managed to fulfil a number of fantasies we’ve had, although we have by no means come close to fulfilling them all.

So….we both very much hope we can get invited back to your next party. How to we wangle that? Do we have to go through the same selection process? Or just beg?? I have no idea what to do next, but I think you’d better send me some more information since I don’t think we’d be able to bear missing out on your parties in the future. All the best and congratulations on putting on such a great evening. PS Did you by any chance find a single earring – a twisted copper-ish and silver wire one – somewhere in the middle of the big playroom? I suspect it went down between the cracks of the bed somewhere….
[First timers 38 & 27]

Thank you so much for the fantastic party on Saturday night! [Male partner] and I were excited but nevous as we arrived as we were totally new to this whole scene. But, from the minute we arrived we felt totally relaxed. Everyone there was so friendly and welcoming and seemed to go out of their way to make us feel at ease!

We had such an amazing evening, it exceeded all our expectations! Our only criticism was that there were so many gorgeous people and so much going on that we needed longer than one evening to enjoy it all! We’ve talked about nothing since and cannot wait to come to another party, we’d love to be invited back!! Thank you again for all the effort you and the committee must have put into organising such a great event, we look forward to seeing you again soon.
[First timers 38 & 28]

we had a great time and we’d definitely like to go again soon please (I gather this kind of enthusiasm is pretty typical for first timers like us…) We were both really nervous so didn’t do that much but we still managed to enjoy ourselves. There was no pressure and no one was pushy – you have to make it pretty obvious that you want to get involved or you just have to get stuck in. I think we were nervously passive instead! I think we’ll be a lot more ‘involved’ next time. To be honest, we didn’t really want to leave at the end and let’s just say we’ve not had much sleep since!

In terms of organisation, we were both really impressed. I can’t think of anything you could have done better. I expected the flat to be nice (it was) but I was amazed by all the small touches (candles, champagne, bottles of water, knowing our names, etc). Everyone was lovely and made us feel at ease straight away (including the barmen – I am grateful for the cigarettes I managed to scrounge off one of them!). The girls were gorgeous and I was pleased to see that some of them were as tall as me! The boys less so, I thought, but I guess that’s to be expected!). The fact that there are so many people there made it sufficiently anonymous, which I like, and the fact that they were young professionals made conversation easy. All in all, it was a great night and we’re both really looking forward to doing it (and more) again. Thank you for a weekend we’re unlikely to forget for quite a long time!
[First timers 31 & 33]

This was our second party after attending our first in August, and wehad another excellent evening. What we like most about Fever (apart from the obvious) is the professional manner in which everything is organised. You obviously dedicate a great deal of time to ensure that everything is spot on and we can only compliment you on every aspect of Fever. Of the new couples we met most were great. One couple were [deleted] from Hampshire, they were lovely and really in the Fever mould. Also another Australian couple [deleted], they were pretty much the last to leave and she was having a great time with the big barman!
[Regulars 34 & 34]

Firstly, thanks for having us! It was a pleasure to meet so many friendly people, and the whole atmosphere was very warm and inclusive from the minute we stepped through the door. The lovely venue, endless champagne and the attentiveness and hospitality of the bar staff all really helped to put us at ease, and most of the nervousness we were feeling dissipated very quickly.

I say ‘most’, as we still retained some reservations and maybe didn’t “let go” as fully as we intended. To be honest with you, I think it was a bit of a culture shock for both of us, but in slightly different ways.

For my part, it was mindblowing to see my fantasy unravelling in front of my eyes – a real orgy with real people just as I always imagined it (as you say on your site), but when faced with the actual manifestation of the fantasy, a kind of “subconscious disbelief” kicked in with a feeling of peculiar detachment, as if I couldn’t actually bring myself to accept where I was and what was happening. ( I suspect you hear this a lot from first-timers)

[Female partner] says that she actually felt a similar detachment, but which stemmed from her feeling an atmosphere of reduced sexual tension – insomuch as everyone has an underlying awareness of why they’re there, and there’s no uncertainty or risk to flirting – the concept of “if you want it, just go get it” didn’t quite provide the tension and excitement that *really* turns her on – although there were a few moments during the night when she did feel that (particularly with one of your barmen, whose name has escaped us… sorry!). Again, it’s not an unassailable problem, but probably a first-time shock.

Phew! That was all a bit heavy and psychological wasn’t it? On a more positive note, we did have fun with a few people (thanks especially to the young studenty-looking couple who, without a word, seamlessly integrated us into the big bed scene – we never did learn their names!) and despite all I’ve said so far, neither of us have been able to stop thinking about it since – which leads us to think that it was probably the preconceptions that we had which inhibited our personalities in the above ways on the night. You see, I’m even getting horny now, remembering it.

So yes, we’d love to come again – please do keep us informed of future dates, and now we actually know just what to expect… watch out – you ain’t seen nothing yet… 😉
[New couple 30 & 21]

thank you for a fantastic night! We both thoroughly enjoyed ourselves and Fever exceeded our expectations in every way. The atmosphere was both welcoming and relaxing. We were immediately put at ease by [regular couple] who we spent most of the evening with. The Fever staff were particularly attentive in every way! The venue was superb, and the guests, as we had hoped, were all attractive and approachable. We would like to offer some positive criticism but in our minds everything was perfect! We couldnt have asked for a better fisrt experience of Fever and cant wait to attend another party! So, please add us to the gold list!
[First timers 38 & 27]

Thanks very much for allowing [female partner] & I to experience Fever in the first place. We had a wonderful night, would love to experience it again & would be delighted as well as honoured to be chosen.

In a word, Wow!

This was our first experience of a swinging party and we were both very nervous. I in particular had ‘performance anxiety’ and I knew that if I didn’t deal with it we could end up leaving the party with a negative experience, the last thing in the world we wanted! The problem of course was this knowledge added to the pressure etc, etc. Anyway, a lovely couple came to our rescue by asking us to play. I explained my nerves and they were simply wonderful. Warm and understanding, they took all the pressure off and before a minute had passed all lights were green! The experience was fantastic at so many different levels, and from then on we really started to enjoy Fever.

On another level it was liberating to meet up with so many people of a similar mindset and I applaud you guys for making this happen. All the couples we spoke to were warm, friendly, engaging and the bar staff were just great.

We’d love to attend another Fever party as soon as possible. On our first night we were very reactive to others approaching us and initiating conversation. There were many other couples we were interested getting involved with (as well as for [female partner], one or two of the bar staff) but our courage failed us! We’ve discussed this and have agreed that if given another opportunity at Fever, we would be much more proactive in engaging people.

We ended up leaving around 2.15, I hope the barman passed on our message of thanks. It was perhaps a little early, but we’d had very little sleep in the previous 36hrs having returned from holiday Fri night. However all day Sunday was spent re-living the previous night and having some of the best sex we’ve ever had. We actually now feel closer than ever before, all thanks to Fever! We feel more confident, in love and more eager to explore the freedom of swinging, so a huge thank you once again.

I’m afraid I don’t have much constructive criticism. I can’t imagine how you could improve on the venue, lighting, music and atmosphere and although we wouldn’t say all couples were up to our expectations of attractiveness, this is a very subjective area and there were certainly some jaw droppers to compensate! So in summary, I wouldn’t change a thing.

On a practical note, we’d love to attend another Fever party asap, we can’t do either of the October dates as we’re away, but would love to join nay you might plan for November. How do we apply in future? Do we still need to send in the send in the photos etc or is there another way?

BTW, I took some pics of [female partner] the next day because we were feeling so sexed up. I’ve attached a couple of the tamer ones and hope you like them. Thanks once gain & I hope we’ll get a chance to come to another Fever event very soon.
[New couple 37 & 30]

Thanks again for letting us join you all on Saturday night, yet again we had a mind blowing time. The venue was amazing, no disrespect to the last party we came to which was in Manchester but the venue in London was 10 times better. It was much bigger and more spacious. Also having the men serving drinks and coming round to top up glasses was a great touch. Even the sweets and chocolates on the table, it made you feel a million dollars and so privileged to be there.

I understand it must be difficult in finding venues in Manchester, but am sure you will find one to rival your London one!

Also could you pass on a big thankyou to your helpers the barmen and beautiful women who greeted us at the door, and all the others who put so much effort into turning one night into a truly wonderful evening!
[Regular couple 24 & 23]
apologies for the late reply and feedback… we loved our last party but then got sucked back up into the everyday world all too soon. We’d both like to tell you what a delicious time we had (particully with [male from other couple], some chinese looking guy and [other couple] – particularly [female partner]!).Don’t think we can make the New Year’s Ball – but have a fantasically wet night without us. Lots of love, peace and harmony.
[Regular couple 34 & 28]